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The New Plus Size-- Size 6-14... Really?

2012-01-13T15:05:00.000-08:00

OK, I wish I could get into a size 14 now, but if I ever got into a size 6, I would still be considered plus size. Yes, you heard right, the new plus sizes are 6-14 according to the fashion world. Ten years ago plus sizes started at size 12 and I personally would be blessed to be able to fit into that size. This means that most of the super models that graced Vogue and Cosmopolitan magazines would be considered plus size. They wouldn't have been just super models, they would have been super-duper models!

Plus size modeling is a very big industry, and at this rate it will be the only kind of modeling that will exist. Women are already starving themselves trying to be skinnier to be accepted by these modeling agencies-some very close to the point of anorexia. Exactly what point is the fashion industry trying to make about being overweight? Are they saying that you should be on the brink of death before you can get a job as a "regular" model. Yeah, right!

Jennifer Hudson Passes on "Precious" Role---And???

2012-01-11T21:16:00.000-08:00

There has been so much controversy over the fact that singer/actress, Jennifer Hudson turned down the role of Precious in the award winning movie, "Precious: Based on the novel Push by Sapphire". I say, OK... What's the big deal?? She has worked very, very hard to lose all of this weight and people are upset because she doesn't want to put the weight back on again for a paycheck. Come on people!!

As a woman that is struggling to lose weight right now, there is no amount of money that would be sufficient enough for me to gain an obscene amount of weight knowing that it would take me forever to get it off again. I totally understand why she made that decision. And it's great that it was her decision to make.

It amazes me how the media and "big business industries'' want stars to lose weight when they don't have that star quality, but when money comes into play it's time to pack on the pounds and collect your cash. Nobody cares about how this would affect the star. Nobody cared about how this would affect Jennifer and I for one thinks she's been through enough without having to worry about taking a hundred steps backward. She has come too far to let anyone or any amount of money to pull her down.

Happy New Year!!!

2011-12-31T22:47:00.000-08:00

I know I haven't been posting on this blog in a long, long time and for that I apologize. This is a brand new year and I will be updating regularly and posting vids from my YouTube channel so you guys can really get to know me better. As you know I am currently enrolled in college obtaining an Associates degree in Graphic Design and that keep me very busy, but I will no longer neglect my readers. You all are important to me and I plan on giving you more of myself.

Now, being that I am on a weight loss journey, that does not mean that I no longer have love for the BBW!! I will always be a BBW! I do want to lose over one hundred pounds and when everything is said and done, I want to be an average weight of 160 pounds. That is still a BBW, but that is one that can buy clothes off the rack and right now I have a problem doing that. I am currently 283 pounds and still trying to get out of the 280s. I mostly document my weight loss journey on YouTube and will continue to do so in 2012. Please visit my channel and let me know what you think. If you don't have a YouTube account you can still watch vids that I post here on Diva Police. I would love for you to comment below! So until then, Happy New Year and thanks for checking me out! Hugs!

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My Girl Mo'Nique Looking Fit and Trim

2011-08-28T12:35:00.000-07:00

As BBW's we have to work long and hard to get where we want to be and Oscar winner, Mo'Nique is no exception to that rule. Here we see Mo'Nique boxing her way to a better way of life and feeling the burn! She has always been an inspiration of mine and now that I am on this journey, she hasn't failed me. Do the damn thing Mo!

... And the Oscar Goes to...Mo'Nique!!

2010-03-15T17:12:00.000-07:00

Bravo!! I am so pleased to say that on May 7, 2010, Comedian/Actress Mo'Nique won the Academy Award for her role as Mary Jones in the film, "Precious: Based on the Novel Push by Sapphire." Mo'Nique donned a royal blue, Tadashi Shoji gown, she wore as a tribute to Hattie McDaniel. Mo'Nique mentioned that Ms. McDaniel wore the same color in 1940, the night she won her Oscar as the first African-American to receive that honor.

As she accepted her award she spoke with such emotion, "I would like to thank the Academy for showing that it can be about the performance and not the politics." By this time my eyes were full of water and I was so proud of her. She continued to thank her husband, "To my amazing husband, Sidney — thank you for showing me that sometimes you have to forgo doing what’s popular, in order to do what’s right."

Mo'Nique I appreciate and congratulate you!! Much love my sister!!

As always... Stay Sexy!!

Nothin' Wrong With Being A Big Girl!!

2010-01-24T19:24:00.001-08:00

As a BBW advocate, I not only advocate for the big girls, but I support anyone that sticks up for the big girl. That means- you got something nice to say about the big girl, then this big girl has nice things to say about you.

Case and point... One of my favorite online personalities and someone I have chose to spotlight on my blog is B. Scott. I was browsing his videos and I came across one that touched me and made me feel very good. He said it was nothing wrong with being a big girl, and he's right, there is nothing wrong with being big. I felt that this video needed to be posted so every woman or girl understood that being overweight is OK. As long as your healthy.

B. Scott is an internet celebrity that speaks very strongly about what he believes in. I respect everything he has to say because he says it straight from the heart. He always says, "Just do you." and he couldn't be more right. Big girls, please support B. Scott, because he is a true person that is forever keeping it real. Go to Youtube and subscribe to his videos and visit his site www.lovebscott.com and show him how the big girls show love!! Oh and Youtube, please don't ever remove B. Scott from the site again, 'cause we love him!

As Always, My Sisters... Stay Sexy!!!

Mo' Nique...Wow!!

2010-01-23T19:45:00.000-08:00

The first word out of her mouth was "Wow." The word was fitting for the achievements this woman has accomplished her entire career. Tonight, Ms. Mo'Nique wins the Screen Actors Guild Award (SAG) for Female Actor in a Supporting Role for the movie "Precious" and in her always sophisticated way, she proceeded to thank those that might be overlooked. She continued to say, "But without these people, this film could have not been what it is."

This was Mo'Nique's first nomination for the award and her first win. It was well deserved and at this enormous rate, she could definitely win the Oscar. She said to Lee Daniels, the director of the movie, "You never cease to amaze me." Mo'Nique, you never cease to amaze your fans!! We love you very much.

Mo'Nique is more to me than a BBW, she is what every woman should aspire to be. Strong, tasteful, stylish, elegant and just plain fabulous. When I first started to become a fan of hers, it was because I familiarized myself with her. I'm a big girl and I'm funny too, but since I have been watching her over the years, she has become so much more to me and my life. Every milestone I see h er reach makes me that more diligent in my own life. I congratulate you Mo'Nique, and I salute you.

As Always, Everyone... Stay Sexy!!

Mo' Nique Does It Again!!!

2010-01-22T20:30:00.000-08:00

Was there ever any doubt that my girl, Mo'Nique was going to win that Golden Globe Award! She also deserves to win that Oscar as well. She is my biggest idol and I am her biggest fan! Best Supporting Actress for the film "Precious: Based on the Novel Push by Sapphire," is the award she received and I felt so proud when she marched up to that stage. There were tears in my eyes as she gave her acceptance speech and all I could think was, "My sister, my sister; you are paving the way for sisters like me."

Mo'Nique looked flawless in a strapless, sleeveless gold colored dress that just set off her smile and her wonderful attitude. She eloquently expressed herself by saying, " I celebrate this award with all the Preciouses and all the Mary's." I felt something when I heard that, just as I felt something when I saw her performance in the movie. Although, I might not have went through exactly what Mo'Nique went through or what "Precious" went through, I still feel like she was speaking directly to me.

This post comes almost a week after the Golden Globes, but I really had to take time to think and make sure that what I was posting was not just about the glitz and glamor. This post is very personal to me and I don't mind sharing it with anybody. I love Mo'Nique and only hope i can meet her one day to tell her how much of an impact she has been in my life.

As Always, My Sisters... Stay Sexy!!

"Precious" is Oscar Worthy!!

2009-12-14T08:48:00.000-08:00

These two ladies better get ready for the Oscars!!

My girl Mo'Nique has done it this time!! Her performance as an abusive mother in 'Precious: Based on the Novel Push by Sapphire,' was nothing short of amazing!! She was so believable and raw. The story revolves around a teenage mother who is pregnant by her father with her second child and sexually, physically and emotionally abused by her mother.

Gabourey "Gabby" Sidibe is an inspiring actress for all young women everywhere. As Clarice Precious Jones, her performance was powerful and riveting. This was something the world had to see. Sidibe showed the innocent side of a young girl who has to grow up so fast in a cruel world of incest and abuse. There is nothing stereotypical about this movie. This is how it happens all over America and it happens to young girls of all races and colors.

I believe Oprah Winfrey and Tyler Perry (executive producers) hit many people deep in their hearts with this movie. Kudos to the both of them. Thank you for putting the story on the big screen.

I was personally brought to tears. I can relate to Precious Jones. When I was young, I was raised by my grandmother. My mother was definitely not the "Mother of the Year." I was one of the lucky ones that was able to rise above the problems that were put on me. Many of our young women are suffering and we all need to acknowledge them and support them.

Do yourself a favor and go see this movie!! If it is not playing in your city, buy it when it comes out on DVD. Do it for precious girls everywhere.

As always...Stay sexy my big, beautiful sisters!!

The Mo'Nique Show!

2009-10-22T12:18:00.000-07:00

I have been watching the Mo'Nique Show for a little while now and I must say that I am impressed with the content of all the shows so far. I love Miss Mo'Nique very much and she always looks great when she comes out on the stage. There are only two things I would critique about the show. Those two things are:

All the screaming!! I know this is your new show and you are very excited about it, but try to tone down the screaming. We can all hear you just fine, girl.

The gentleman, by the name of Rodney Perry, needs to have more to do than just sit on his stool and dance around.

Other than these small details the show has really impressed me. I really have enjoyed the guest she has had on the show. One of the specific things that I have come to enjoy about Mo' is the way she tells us to give ourselves a hug every night. She does show love to each and everyone of her viewers. I appreciate you Mo'. I hope your show will be around for a long time.

As always my sisters, stay sexy!!

Release Your Inner Diva With Sexy Plus Size Lingerie

2009-09-22T17:53:00.000-07:00

By Janelle Jackson

Every woman has a right to look and feel sexy. Just because you may be blessed with a beautiful plus size figure, doesn't mean you have to miss out when it comes to wearing sexy lingerie.

Today there are more choices than ever before when it comes to finding plus size lingerie. You don't have to settle for shapeless caftans and shifts. Even if you live in an area where options for shopping are limited.

Before starting your quest for the perfect plus size lingerie outfit, you need to know your measurements. Forget what size you wear. Each manufacturer makes their clothing differently. Don't worry about what size you end up buying, as long as it fits properly. Knowing your bust, waist, and hip measurements will be very helpful in determining what size of lingerie you need to buy.

To get the most accurate results have another person do the measuring. Ask a trusted friend or maybe your sister or mother if possible. Take a tape tailors tape and measure around the fullest part of the bust. Your bra size is not the same as your bust measurement. Your bra band size doesn't include the measurement around your bust which could add another 2-4 inches to your bust measurement. Then measure around your waist and the fullest part of your hips. These 3 measurements will help you determine what size of plus size lingerie will fit your body.

If you shop online for your plus size lingerie you will have significantly more options and better selection to choose from. There are stores online that specialize in only plus size lingerie and will have a large selection of baby dolls, chemises, gowns, teddies and corsets to choose from that will compliment many different body types.

Be sure to check the size chart and use your measurements to determine what size you will be. Also make sure you check the online store's return policy before making a purchase.

Don't be afraid to experiment and try new and sexy styles. Being plus size doesn't limit your options when it comes to finding sexy plus size lingerie. You just need to take the first step, buying your first plus size lingerie piece. Soon you will come to realize there's a whole new world out there and lots of sexy options for you. Finding your inner diva may just be as simple as slipping into your new sexy nightie.

Janelle Jackson is a plus size lingerie, costume, and clubwear designer and owner of plus size lingerie store, http://www.BigGalsLingerie.com, specializing in sexy plus size lingerie, clubwear, plus size costumes, corsets, and more, in sizes 1X-12X.

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Jennifer Hudson-- The Vh1 Diva!!

2009-09-17T18:09:00.000-07:00

Vh1 Divas Live was started right with a classy and sexy performance of "Spotlight", by Jennifer Hudson! Girlfriend was looking amazing in her basic black from top to bottom, it was everything but basic! She was filling every inch of that outfit, and was wearing it well. She was working the stage as only someone with such class could. Her hair, makeup and voice were flawless.

About a week ago I was watching the movie that introduced her acting career, "Dreamgirls". As I watched this movie for probably the tenth time, I am always amazed at the range of Ms. Hudson's voice. She is a true diva. She herself said that she is a diva, a "good" diva. I totally agree with her.

The show stopper was when the legendary Stevie Wonder accompanied Ms. Hudson in a duet of "All is Fair In Love". This is definitely when we saw the incredible range of her voice. In my opinion, no performance could compare with hers tonight.

As most of us know Ms. Hudson has been dealing with the loss of her mother, brother, and nephew. She has been very strong during these difficult times and my prayers all always with her. She is the true definition of a strong, black, woman. I salute you.

As always... Stay sexy!!

Beyonce At The VMA's!!

2009-09-14T17:57:00.000-07:00

Now, was my curvy sista working it or what?!!

Beyonce' was in a class by herself last night at the MTV VMA's. Her performance of "Single Ladies" was a perfect example of women with a little more to work with working with what they got!

A lot of people are asking "Is Beyonce' getting fat?". Well, if a body like that is fat, then I'll be more than happy to be represented by her. True, she is not a size 2 and she has the hips and thighs to prove it. I would dare any woman that is a size 2 to dance and move in 6 inch heels the way she does.

Classy not only describes her performance last night on stage, but the unselfish way she stepped aside and let Taylor Swift have her moment in the spotlight. She is truly a class act and very proud of her.

As always... Stay sexy!!

Over the Shoulder Boulder Holder!!!

2009-09-12T16:15:00.000-07:00

Somebody please give me a bra that I can buy off the rack! I know my cup size is not A negative, but I hate having to buy my bras out of a catalog. I would like to go to the store, pick out a bra and maybe wear it the next day. Since I have to get them out of a catalog, I have to wait a least two weeks before I can even think about wearing it. They take so long to come that I usually forget that I ordered anything.

Big girls get the short end of the stick when it comes to bra shopping. Whether it be under-wire, no wire, sports bra, strapless, front snaps or back snaps, it's all the same. "I'm sorry Ms. (fill in the blank), we don't have that size in the store, but we can order that from our catalog."

I see bras for all the skinny girls in Marshall's and Ross for about $10.00 at the most and even the dollar stores are selling them. I wish I could spend only $10.00 for a bra. I'm spending $25.00 at the least.

I'm also tired of hearing that more fabric means more money. Unlike people with implants, I didn't ask to have large breasts. Let's get some full-figure bras on the sales rack. OK Macy's, JC penney, and Nordstrom's! I'm sure a lot of women agree with me.

Is BBW Porn Necessary for Exposure?

2009-09-08T12:57:00.000-07:00

On the internet there seems to be a lot of porn websites featuring big women. I also notice that there are many XXX videos in the video stores as well. Is this the only way that we as BBW's can be seen? I totally understand that we can be sexy and seductive, but is leaving our clothes on not enough to become a mainstream form of entertainment? It's not that I am against BBW porn sites, I just want us to be exposed in other ways as well. As a matter of fact, my husband is a fan of some of these sites, and they have given us a lot of new ideas.

Why can't we be exposed in a classier way? The reason I ask this question is simple; when I do a search for BBW, the first results I see are for porn sites. We should not immediately be associated with pornography! All of us are not porn stars and all men are not looking for BBW porn sites. There plenty of classy ways to be exposed as a BBW. There's swimsuits and lingerie to name a couple.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be a BBW porn star and participate in these porn sites. I admire any woman who is that confident in herself. I remember a time when BBW porn was a taboo subject, now it happens to be very popular in the sex industry. Maybe one day us BBW's will be popular in every industry.

As always... Stay sexy!!

The Barnes & Noble Experience

2009-09-07T15:51:00.000-07:00

My favorite book store in the whole world is Barnes & Noble. Today I was a little upset with them. I was in there looking for my favorite book, "Skinny Women are Evil", by Mo'Nique. I loaned my old copy to someone and they never returned it. Anyway, I looked all over this store and I can't find it anywhere so I ask an associate if they could help me locate the book. She typed it in on her computer and then told me they didn't have it in stock, but she could order it for me or check another Barnes & Noble to see if they had it. She was very polite, and I told her no thank you.

Now the fact that they did not have the book I was looking for was not the reason I was upset. You see, I walked that whole store and not only did I not see Mo'Nique's book, I didn't see more than three books with a full-figure woman on the cover. The first one was Mo'Nique's cookbook, "Skinny Cooks Can't Be Trusted", which I will be buying next time. The next one was a biography about Serena Williams, and even though she is an athlete, she's still a member of the classy BBW club. Now the last book was a memoir by Nene Leakes. She is one of the cast members of "The Real Housewives of Atlanta". You gotta love Nene!

It's funny that I didn't see any plus size books around the books store but I saw plenty of books on different diets and how to lose weight. It's obvious that the literary world knows there are fat people in the world, I guess they think that having one on the cover is just not attractive. Yeah right! That's a little depressing to see all of these books telling me that I need to lose weight to look better and be more healthy. The problem is that every book tells you something different! This is because losing weight is different for everyone. We as big people need to feel comfortable with ourselves, and I think I would have felt more comfortable if I would have seen more books with average size people on the cover.

As always... Stay sexy!!

The Last Peanut Butter Cup!!

2009-09-04T21:03:00.000-07:00

Have you ever thought that two Reese's peanut butter cups were never enough? I mean if you look at it, there not exactly equal to a regular size candy bar. Once you eat one there's only one left, and you start to hate the Hershey company for only putting two in the package. Why do you have to pay the same price for two peanut butter cups? You can't compare it to any other candy bar. It's not packed full of nuts like a Snickers or wafers covered with chocolate like a Kit-Kat, and it's not a plain chocolate covered nougat bar like Three Musketeers! What the hell is nougat anyway!

The Reese's company made a "king size" package, which contains four peanut butter cups. I say, a regular package should have three cups in it and the king size pack should have six. That's reasonable, don't you think? I'm not trying to be greedy, I just believe I should get what I paid for. I'm not saying that I'm not going to buy them anymore because of this, 'cause believe me they are good and I love them! As a big girl, I highly recommend them and unless you are allergic to chocolate or peanut butter, please make it first on your candy list. It's definitely first on mine!

The Fat Chat Room!

2009-09-04T13:59:00.000-07:00

OK, so I'm in this chat room and I'm talking about why I like blogging so much and I'm explaining what my blog is centered around, when some guy enters the room and proceeds to insult all the fat people. This person is saying that we're all lazy and and that big people are ugly and there is nothing beautiful about being fat! Now, I think I forgot to say that the heading for this particular chat room was, "Big and Beautiful". Why was he in the room anyway?

I'll give you three reasons why he was in the room, and it wasn't because he was a fan of the big woman.

He only wants to start an argument with someone by saying something to make them upset. When he does this, they will be paying more attention to him.
He thinks that his sharp comments will impress someone else in the room. By doing this, he has directed the attention to come in his direction.
He is just a hateful person and will stop at nothing to inflict any kind of pain on his target or multiple targets. Most likely, he is working the chat room alone with no supporters and figures that he is in the spotlight, thus drawing the attention to himself.

So, what is this saying to us about these insecure people who have nothing better to do than pick on people who are apparently smarter, nicer and definitely better looking than they are? All they want is attention! Something to make themselves feel better about the messed up person they turned out to be. Today we call them "haters", and we as a full-figure community have no time for haters. We are too busy being big and beautiful!

As always... Stay sexy!!

SuperDiva... A Supersize Hero!!

2009-09-02T17:40:00.000-07:00

It's a bird, it's plane, it's Superdiva! Able to deflect any insult, wisecrack and diet that may come her way. Able to leap a tall, dark and handsome man in a single bound, and with her mighty weight and strength abilities can kick a skinny woman clear across the globe.

Don't we need a superhero? We are some super women so why can't we have someone to represent us in the superhero world. I'm pretty sure that Stan Lee could create a full-figured, sexy superhero. Skinny women have always been the sexy heroes. Let's see, there's Wonder woman, Superwoman, Catwoman, Batgirl and not one thick lady in the bunch. I know a few men who would definitely buy a comic book if it contained a few voluptuous vixens.

Some people may think that requesting a full-figured superhero may be too much to ask, but for me it's never too much! We can be and do anything that a skinny cat and a tiny bat can. Superheroes may fictional characters, but I feel that art should imitate life and there is no life like the one lived by a Big, Beautiful Woman!

As always... Stay sexy my heroes!!

More To Love is More To Hate

2009-09-01T15:59:00.000-07:00

I cannot believe that FOX would subject the full-figured community to the garbage that is it's new show, "More to Love". The show is in a format something like the ABC show, " The Bachelor", and I am outraged at the way they portrayed plus sized women on this show! We do want a reality show for us, but not at the expense of our intelligence, our judgment or our feelings. FOX must have been the only network to take this idea and because of this, they decided to make a mockery of the whole thing.

First of all, not every plus size woman wants a plus size man. FOX says that twenty regular women are looking for the man of their dreams. The one man looking for "love" is a plus size man. There are plenty of slender men looking for a plus size woman. Personally, I am speaking from experience because my husband is considerably a lot smaller than me. He always has been. Who's to say what the man of their dreams really looks like? Anyway, they have turned what could have been a great show into a pity party for fat people. A whole lot of crying is not my idea of a great show for the bbw.

Next, all of these women have to tell their weight. Are you serious! No woman, regardless of size wants to disclose her weight. This is just another way for FOX to humiliate these women. This is not a reality show. This is a real mess! You can't just take a show like "The Bachelor" and replace it with overweight people and call it by another name. It's simply crazy and it should have been done with a lot more thought.

As always... Stay sexy and hopeful!!

A Big Woman's Reality

2009-08-31T20:50:00.000-07:00

When can full-figure women get a real reality show! I mean one that doesn't involve someone trying to make you lose weight, like "The Biggest Loser" or "Dance Your A** Off". The most we ever got even close to a reality show was "Mo'Nique's Fat Chance". That show was a beauty pageant for plus-size women and I loved it. The women were gorgeous and I was very impressed with the whole style of the show. You know I love everything Mo'Nique does and this show was no different.

I'm sorry, but all the reality shows are for the skinny people and I'm upset about it. It's always a show with a cast full of skinny people with maybe one overweight person in the bunch. I'm ready for a cast of big people and maybe one skinny person. When can we have " Really Big Brother" or a "Fat Survivor". Why does it have to be "I Love New York"? Why can't it be "I Love The Big Apple"? I am serious! Why can't there be a house full of guys that come to New York to hook up with one full-figured queen? Hello, it is not that hard to make this happen.

CBS, MTV, Vh1, BET, Oxygen and all of the other networks that show all of these reality shows are very capable of putting this kind of reality show on the air. The reason they don't put them out there is because they think nobody would be interested in seeing them. It's our job as BBW's and BHM (big, handsome, men) to let these people know that these so called "reality shows" need to have real, regular people in them! There is nobody more regular or real than BBW's.

As always...Stay sexy

Respect for the Chubby Chaser

2009-08-30T10:16:00.000-07:00

I love my FA's!! For those of you that don't know, a FA is a fat admirer. Men who enjoy the company of a full-figured woman are growing everyday. I guess they figure--once you go fat, you never go back. I have to admit that I have had my share of FA's in my lifetime and to tell you the truth, it's never a bad feeling to know that a man is interested in you because you're not a size 2 is very refreshing.

Most men are big eaters, so a woman who has a healthy appetite is always good. Men do not want to take a sista out to eat and all she orders is a salad, two bread sticks, and a glass of water. We as BBW's like to eat! Oh, and don't hesitate to get a man who likes to cook--preferably a chef. Girl, I'm talking about good loving and good eating! Chefs love to feed their women. The more you eat their cooking, the more they love it.

What I would like to see is more professional men as chubby chasers. I don't mean famous people, because I have seen a few in the entertainment industry. I'm talking about locally. More lawyers and doctors need to give the big girl a chance. They don't know what they're missing. Some of the businessmen I'm not sure about. Maybe they're on the down-low and don't want people to know that they are out there chasing the chubbies. There's nothing to be ashamed of, baby.

So to all the chubby chasers out there looking for a BBW, I respect you and I adore you!

As always...Stay sexy!

My Big & Sexy Idol--Mo'Nique!!

2009-08-29T18:05:00.000-07:00

Funny, smart, beautiful, strong, sexy, a motivator and just plain talented is the woman I most admire! I like to call her Ms. Mo'Nique. Mo'Nique has been a roll model for all young girls and women who were struggling with their weight. She has shown me and thousands of other women that there is nothing wrong with embracing who you are. If you're fat, so what! Don't let being fat stop you from doing anything that you want to do.

What I like most about Mo'Nique is the fact that she is classy, never trashy. She has a way of coming across in her performances that is so uplifting to bbw's everywhere. Her style and flare is so amazing! A lot of people would say, "She is really funny, to be fat girl." or "She is really stylish, to be a fat girl." To people like that I say: She is more funny and more stylish than many people in this world, fat or skinny! I think any woman should aspire to be more like her. Her body type is not what makes her. What is on the inside is what really matters and Mo'Nique is a beautiful person with a beautiful soul.

I really don't care what people think about me looking up to a full-figured comedienne. My whole reason for me being the person I am today is because I had to choose someone to look up to and for the grace of God, there was Mo'Nique. I don't think I could have made a better choice.

As always... Stay sexy!!

BODacious--The Sexiest Magazine on the Map!!

2009-08-28T12:24:00.000-07:00

I am so tired of people thinking that fat women are unattractive! We are voluptuous, and I am glad to know that Zik Ukaeje, the creator of BODacious magazine, also thinks so. The magazine is full of "regular women" who are definitely not a size 2. Its content is explicit, which is expected for a full-figured adult magazine, but it is tasteful.

BODacious is a great supporter for the full-figure community. This magazine has a special place in my heart and not for the adult content. It shows me that as a bbw, I can be sexy as I want to be. It also shows me that there are a lot of average size men that adore admiring a large woman. More men are understanding that a plus size woman has a lot more to offer than just her nice personality and pretty face. We can be sex symbols too! So, to Zik Ukaeje I say, thank you from myself, from my lover and from all bbw's all over the world.

As always... I bodaciously say, Stay sexy!!

Revenge It Not Good -- But It Sure Does Feel Good

2009-08-26T13:23:00.000-07:00

Have you ever noticed that when you leave a job regardless of the reason, whether you quit your job or you got fired, you always feel like getting back at someone or everyone there. Well, I'm no different. I remember Chris Rock saying in one of his shows that no matter where you work, there is always somebody there that you can't stand. This is so true!! There was always at least one person that really got on my nerves at my job. The situation gets more annoying when one of those people is your supervisor, manager, boss, whatever you want to call them. It may seem pretty devious, but revenge on these particular people always makes me feel better.

Case in point, I worked at a company for about two years. (Surprised I lasted that long!) A couple of my managers were the most irrational, ignorant people I have ever met. No matter what I would do and no matter how good my work was they always had something negative to say to me. This made my job more and more difficult to do. Not only did it stress me out while I was there, it affected my life at home too. I mean I was having nightmares about this place!! Eventually, it got to me so much that I had to leave. Needless to say- I wanted revenge!

Now even though I wanted to make those people pay big time for how they treated me, there was nothing I could really do about it. I guess my subconscious mind knew this bit of information, because I had a dream that was the epitome of what I mean by revenge.

I dreamed that I won the lottery for about 120 million dollars. (Can't understand how my mind came up with that amount.) Anyway, the first thing I did after collecting my winnings was go to my old job, which was a particular grocery store, stood at the front door and said, "I will give 1,000 dollars to any customer that leaves this store right now and an additional 5,000 dollars to never shop at this particular location again." It was crazy! People were running out of that store like there was a fire! Obviously, that made a lot of the employees and managers very mad so I sweetened the deal even more by saying, " If you are an employee and not a manager, I will give you 10,000 dollars if you quit right now! Next thing you know all of the employees are in a line to get out of the store. Now, I kind of felt bad for the managers that I did like so I believed that they deserved something too. "If you are a manager and I like you, you will receive two tickets round trip to anywhere in the world and 5,000 dollars spending money and all you have to do is put in a request to move to a different store." Well, there were only two people that didn't get anything and those two people were the ones that made my life a living hell while I was working there.

Now when I woke up, I knew nothing had changed at all. Everything was the very same as it had always been, but I felt so much better. Not the best I could feel, because the best would mean that all of this really happened. Hell hath no fury like a diva scorned. As always... Stay sexy!

See Me Not My Breast!!

2009-08-25T20:56:00.000-07:00

Why is it that most men see my breasts before they see me? I have to admit they do stand out there, but I do like men to look me in my eye when they address me. I understand that a lot of men are breast men and do not really care about how a woman may look in the face. What I mean is that Pamela Anderson could be "dirt ugly", and most men would not care at all. This may be the case for a lot of women even if it's not your breasts they are noticing, but your butt or your legs. In my case it is my breasts and only my breasts! I have a cute face and all I'm saying is "LOOK AT ME as a whole not just the big "ta-ta's".
What's even more weird is when women look at me!! I'm not sure what to think. Are they gay and admiring me or are they jealous because they don't have large breasts? What I do to solve this quite large problem that i have is two things:

When I catch a man looking at the "girls" as I have so nicely named them, I turn around so my back is facing them. They then might ask,"Why did you turn around?" So I tell them, "Since you are so obsessed with my breasts, maybe you would like to kiss my behind!" Then I walk away. This one always makes me feel better.
With women it's a little different because I'm not sure what the reason is. With women it's more about the look you can give them. A mean look can pretty much scare a lot of women away and it is pretty effective, but sometimes if you just say "hi" or a Wendy Williams "how you doin" they will just stop in their tracks and look you in your face.

Sometimes being a big girl has it's drawbacks, and one of mine are my big tatas!! But ladies, don't let having large breasts stop you from being a face in this world. All us ladies have a face in this world and it deserves to be recognized! As always...Stay sexy!

Introduction To My Big and Beautiful Poetry

2009-08-25T14:22:00.000-07:00

With me being a big, beautiful, sexy diva, there has to be more than what is on the exterior. There has to be some substance, some spark, something on the inside to pull people in so they find out who you really are. One way I show people who I really am is with my poetry. I like to call it spoken word because what I write is best when recited. Well, with that said, I now introduce you to my very first piece or poem on my site. As always...Stay sexy!!!

Tattoo

Hello you, looking as good as you do. I can't take my eyes off of you. First time I saw

you I had to have you. I stared at you closely hoping we could get closer, become one

with each other. So in a short time, I decided to make you mine. Although it was hard,

painful at times, I had to get you under my skin. Silent as you are, your voice speaks

loudly to me. As I smile when I see your face, you are permanently placed in your

special space. With you I'm never alone and you mean so much to me so I put you where

the whole world can see. All shined up like a diamond in the sun, glistening like

morning dew. Truth be told, you're stuck on me like I'm stuck on you and you'll forever

be my tattoo.

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Sexy BBW's

2009-08-24T14:57:00.000-07:00

Who says you have to be a size 2 or 4 to be sexually attractive and good in bed? Plus size women can thrill their lovers just as good as most thin women can, sometimes even better. Society thinks that because we're overweight and not in shape, we can't have great sex. More and more men are attracted to larger women and these larger women are learning more ways to spice up their sex lives. Here are a few tips for women who have more to love.

1. Be confident! I have come to learn that we, as plus size women, do not have to be insecure about being sexy with our men. The first thing you must understand about being sexy is being confident. If you don't look in the mirror and see a seductive temptress, it will be quite difficult to convince any man that you are interested in enjoying his company.

2. Try new outfits to wear! We have curves that deserve to be shown and admired -- so leave the sweatsuits, sweaters and soccer mom jeans at home. Never be ashamed of your body. Take time to change at least one article of clothing a day. Wear short sleeves instead of long sleeves. Pick up a low cut blouse. It may be a little hard at first, but soon you will have an entire wardrobe of sexy clothes. This is the kind of eye candy that your man wants to see!

3. Don't fear rejection! Rejection is a speed bump on your way to a happy sex life. Sometimes it can be a part of any journey. Your goal is to be desirable and sexy in your relationship. Your goal is to be comfortable in your own skin. For every man that may not be attracted to you, there could be twenty more that are just waiting for a woman like you. Persevere and overcome that obstacle. It will always make you stronger and smarter.

4. Aim to please! Be romantic. Be his fantasy girl. If he wants Beyonce', you are now the biggest, most beautiful Beyonce' he has ever seen. If he loves Playboy magazine, get out your bunny suit and be his playmate of the year. Fulfill his every need and he will return the favor. Be careful not to compromise your judgment. You both can have a healthy sex life and this is about both of you being satisfied.

5. Have fun with it! Explore your options and have a good time doing it. If you are not having fun trying new things, you may be doing something wrong. Laugh with your partner! Let him know you are comfortable laughing at yourself and learning new things. Just go be sexy and have fun!

As always... Stay sexy!!

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2009-08-23T10:14:00.000-07:00

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